You are probably reading this because you had a recent break up with your boyfriend. What's next? Do you want him back? If your answer is yes, then keep reading to find out how you can get back your ex boyfriend back.
What Are Your Chances?
You need to consider this BEFORE anything else. Begin by asking and answering the following questions: How long were you with him? Was it a long term or short term relationship? If your relationship was a short one and your ex boyfriend is already seeing someone else, it might be time to move on. It might be a harsh realization but it might be because he didn't truly love you. However if you were in a long term relationship, then there is great motivation to want back your ex and you have a 90% chance of winning him back if you follow a PROVEN PLAN.
If your ex remains single several months after the break up, this is a sign he's still in love with you. In this situation it is much easier for you to get him back. Even if he started dating again, all hope isn't lost. he might just be going into a rebound relationship because he is depressed and missing you. Either way you WILL need a PROVEN PLAN to follow.
Get control of your emotions. Going through a break up is very tough emotionally. You might be tempted to do the following critical MISTAKES like crying all day long or locking yourself at the bathroom for extended periods. If you stand any chance of getting him back you have to be patient enough to get control of your emotions.
Don’t Be Needy
Pleading, weeping or threatening will do nothing to win him back and will just make things worse. It WILL turn him off if he thinks you can't live without him. Save your dignity. Don't forget no guy likes a girlfriend without self-respect.
Begin As Friends Again
Remember when you were first dating? You began as friends and you need to go back there FIRST. Even though it might be tough for you, you HAVE to be nice and friendly towards him. No need for unnecessary drama.
Keep things fun and light in the beginning. Be there for him when he really needs it. When he discovers that you'll always there for him just like before, he will come running back to you.
Even though it might be hard you must appear like you are ok with the break up and it is not affecting you that much. Don't give into his every demand. Remain dignified and let him know you are not dying for him.
Don't get connected right after the break up though. You should only get connected with him if he is still opened to talking to you. Since you love him and want him back, you don't have to end all connection with him (only right after the break up). Your OCCASIONAL calls will keep you on his mind.
Keep heavy emotional stuff to a minimum at this stage. You can ask him about how he is doing generally or what he's been up to. You'll get a feel for what's going on with him and if he's opened to giving the relationship another chance.
The biggest hurdle that will stop you from getting your man back is NOT having a PLAN. There are things you can say to him to have him running after YOU. Will you make the same MISTAKES that 95% of women make when trying to win their lover back? Without some kind of plan you WILL lose your ex boyfriend forever! You will only get ONE chance to get your ex boyfriend back when he has moved on. Get the PLAN here.